tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.comments2012-05-31T09:59:11.663-07:00Deborah Mecklinger, LL.B.,M.S.W., A.T.C.http://www.blogger.com/profile/05744080484751074533noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-29200195429625691602010-07-29T01:20:59.955-07:002010-07-29T01:20:59.955-07:00It can be difficult blending families, good luck!solicitor macclesfieldhttp://www.hague-lambert.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-5595143226483853322010-07-27T23:39:41.099-07:002010-07-27T23:39:41.099-07:00peace of mind is hard to findAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-101405384654963882010-07-09T07:12:25.661-07:002010-07-09T07:12:25.661-07:00&#39;My advice to all on this life path is; you&#39;re separated or, on your way to divorce, or divorced...own your part of all that and move on!&#39;<br /><br />I totally agree with this mantra, great postcheshire solicitorshttp://www.oneill-morgan.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-49035698909826790422010-07-01T04:06:31.781-07:002010-07-01T04:06:31.781-07:00What if the SARA is living with an uncle that is lonely and thinks this person is a friend? I want to help but don&#39;t want to overstep my bounds. My wife is taking care of his finances so I think she/we should have some say about this SARA living with and taking advantage of my uncle.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-29204297881465165452010-04-05T04:18:04.731-07:002010-04-05T04:18:04.731-07:00Since technology is advancing day b day, there are more softwares that will help you to confirm whether or not your spouse is cheating on you. Having a <a href="http://www.discussing-affairs-of-the-heart.com" rel="nofollow">cheating spouse</a> can be very painful emotionally and it will be very hard to forget.Alaynahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06150005033360570704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-13705348284284907902010-03-14T01:12:43.984-08:002010-03-14T01:12:43.984-08:00Some people call it blending families not blended families as it is a lifelong process. I like the title of your blog. It can be a book title :-)Blending Familieshttp://www.blending-families.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-38844606845284746102010-03-13T15:03:48.917-08:002010-03-13T15:03:48.917-08:00HA HA HA! <br /><br />Dearest Deborah, How true the words are that you speak. I have to admit that when I saw your email address I thought, &quot;Oh, NO! Here we go again, hang on!&quot;<br /><br />My advice to all on this life path is; you&#39;re separated or, on your way to divorce, or divorced...own your part of all that and move on!<br /><br />Carry your own crosses, never give one to a child at ALL costs, even if you have to eat your tongue on a daily basis! Seek good help that is intent on finding resolutions and teaching problem solving skills rather than the many that unconsciously create conflict to make a living.<br /><br />Be honest with your children, but never say ANYTHING bad about their other parent; the one they have the right to love. <br /><br />Teach your children about the world and life, so that they can make their own judgements through those lessons.....if your children are in true danger, and you are certain that they not just your vehicles of revenge...get help to help them. The rest is just rhetoric-be wary of your own rhetoric, children grow to see through this, eventually.<br /><br />For the most part I have learned that to &#39;do unto others, as you would have them to do unto you&#39;, is the resounding advice of divorce.<br /><br />Good luck!<br /><br />-a mom of 5 who sometimes gets to be the mom of 8...that is when CAS doesn&#39;t show up; with another anonymous call!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-51195368203129046922009-12-09T03:08:13.659-08:002009-12-09T03:08:13.659-08:00Divorce has a long-lasting impact on children. Fact! With that said you will both need to sit down with them together and explain why you are getting a divorce and how things will be like in the future. You need to be patient and understanding with them and their emotions.Cory Aidenmanhttp://divorcingsurvival.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-4622375417662908322009-08-15T01:57:23.208-07:002009-08-15T01:57:23.208-07:00Yes, it is thinkable matter if a divorce is dating and he or she has any child then what would be to the child and what impact it is going to give that child?<br /><br />Anyhow, there is some legal obligation that is if the child is not over 18 years then the child would be with the mother and she will take care of it, but what would if she is <a href="http://goxdating.com/" rel="nofollow">dating</a> someone else, that person will accept that child.<br /><br /><a href="http://goxdating.com/" rel="nofollow">http://goxdating.com/</a>Eva Issabelahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550372684854217658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-20979894656077284492009-05-16T10:30:00.000-07:002009-05-16T10:30:00.000-07:00Good advice. The trouble with e-mails is they inevitably sound more stark and abrupt than intended.Judithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01754552577833848484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-27130852563198513252009-05-16T10:29:00.000-07:002009-05-16T10:29:00.000-07:00Good advice. The trouble with e-mails is they inevitably sound more stark and abrupt than intended.Judithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01754552577833848484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-60143248640420044622009-03-26T16:42:00.000-07:002009-03-26T16:42:00.000-07:00wise words that I will put in my toolbox. thank you!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-22672682372590666572009-03-18T22:18:00.000-07:002009-03-18T22:18:00.000-07:00There is no such thing as a good divorce. If children are involved...remember this...and nothing else matters..."in every decision you will be faced with, try to remain child-focused, you will adjust ...the children will benefit...and make it easier on all of you"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-42038603541357407382009-03-15T06:58:00.000-07:002009-03-15T06:58:00.000-07:00Thank you...can we add "lose your wallet" to this somehow??Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-82380569525649753492009-03-14T09:46:00.000-07:002009-03-14T09:46:00.000-07:00Brilliant!! You should write a manual. Your practical insight and wisdom is enlightening!! I will be checking in often.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-8834636054245416282009-03-12T23:10:00.000-07:002009-03-12T23:10:00.000-07:00Keep the articles coming. Sage advice.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-39116635239658696792009-03-12T23:08:00.000-07:002009-03-12T23:08:00.000-07:00I think I fall into all 10 categories. Thanks for the practical tips.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6201965526697410961.post-56608898220309191032009-03-12T20:05:00.000-07:002009-03-12T20:05:00.000-07:00I love this!! It is so true!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com